@Elizafox A point of potential hope? Think how relatively quickly things went from "ONE MAN ONE WOMAN NOTHING ELSE" to "Legal now". And when you have the spoons, doing the legal legwork you can do now (based on what gay/lesbian couples used to have to do) for that will help push the world forward.
A nice little Mastodon instance. Mild trolling encouraged (keep it local), but not required. Malicious behaviour is not tolerated. Follow Wheaton's law and you'll be fine.